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Parenting, while wonderful, is tough. Every parent knows that. And while some of the parenting challenges that previous generations faced are still applicable today, there are whole new challenges that we’re experiencing that have never been dealt with before. I’m not saying other generations didn’t have their own battles. Of course, they did. There’s no doubt about that. However, I can think of some struggles that are entirely new. A few that come to my mind are:
- Navigating social media as a parent and trying not to constantly compare (comparing yourself to other parents and your kids to other kids).
- Not letting your kids have too much screen time — it’s no longer just TVs, but tablets and smartphones, too.
- The pressure of being the Pinterest perfect mom — having the best crafts and birthday parties, organic meals and healthy and well-rounded after-school snacks, always saying yes to volunteer work at the school, etc.
- Feeling like you have to stay at home so others don’t “raise your kids” but also contribute financially to the family.
- Or “work like you don’t have kids” but “raise kids like you don’t work.”
- Not giving your kid a phone too soon (but when you do), figuring out parental controls, and not letting them on social media.
The list goes on. Since we can’t turn to our parents for solutions to these problems, we’re left to figure it out ourselves. No one knows this better than Mrs. Modern Mom Probs herself, Tara Clark. She has been shedding light (and humor) along the way on what mothers face today since 2017. Her work helps mothers feel less alone and reminds us that we’re not failing; we’re all just trying to do our best. We had to chat with Tara on the show to hear her thoughts on modern mom probs and her solutions!
Who is Tara Clark?
Tara Clark is an author, speaker, content creator, podcaster, and the founder of Modern Mom Probs. After becoming a mom and recognizing a hole in the online space for moms to connect authentically, she launched her Instagram account in 2017. She has since built a valued community, solidifying herself as a humorous, trusted voice in the parenting space. Tara holds a Bachelor of Arts in Communication from Villanova University and an MBA in Media Management from Metropolitan College of New York. She currently lives in New Jersey with her husband and son.
What Did We Discuss?
In this episode, we chat with Tara Clark about modern mom problems. We wanted to talk to Tara about some of the most common struggles modern moms face and solutions to help us move forward. Here are several of the questions that we covered in our conversation:
- What are some of the most common problems modern mothers face today?
- In your experience, what are some effective strategies for managing the juggling act of motherhood, work, and personal life?
- Social media often portrays an idealized version of motherhood, which can lead to comparison and feelings of inadequacy. How do you address this issue, and what advice do you give moms struggling with it?
- The mental load of motherhood, including managing household tasks, schedules, and emotional labor, is a significant challenge for many mothers. How do you raise awareness about this issue, and what strategies do you suggest for managing the mental load?
- Parenting is sometimes likened to a competitive sport, with pressure to excel in various aspects. How do you advocate for a more supportive and empathetic approach to parenting?
- What are some ways moms can combat feelings of isolation?
- How do you encourage moms to prioritize their mental health and well-being amidst the demands of parenthood, especially in a culture that often glorifies busyness and self-sacrifice?
- How can modern moms prioritize self-compassion and self-care when feeling overwhelmed or burnt out?
- What would it be if you could give modern mothers one piece of advice?
Mamas, we are human. We make mistakes. However, we need to remember that we are trying our best, and our best is good enough. Give yourself more grace as you navigate this stage of motherhood (and the next stage, and the next). If you’re listening to this episode, chances are, you’re a very good mother. We hope you feel the love and support you so deserve.
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